Money, without the scorekeeping
You share a life.
You shouldn't have to
split every cent.
Resolve one shared money decision together in 15 minutes — without merging your accounts or turning every coffee and grocery run into a calculation.
Free first Money Date · No bank connection · Your personal money stays private
What your first 15 minutes look like
01 · PRIVATE
Only you can see this
“Rent is due before my payday.”
02 · BRING
Shared with Alex
Rent is due before Jamie's payday this month.
03 · DECIDE
What feels fair for this one?
Alex covers rent. Jamie sends their share on the 7th.
04 · CLEAR
✓ Decision made
Owner: Alex · Due Oct 3 · Saved to your shared history
Talking about money
rarely feels this simple.
Most couples don't struggle because they can't do the math. They struggle because money carries memory, expectations, habits and different ideas of what's fair.
- Want to figure out dinner?
- Sure. Want me to get this one?
- What about the groceries yesterday?
- Right… this is what I mean.
Someone always ends up
carrying the math in their head.
Shared spending often creates invisible accounting.
- Who paid last time?
- What counts as shared?
- Did I already cover more this month?
- Should I bring it up?
- Does this even matter?
THE TALLY NOBODY WROTE DOWN
- Groceries, TuesdayYou
- Takeout, FridayThem
- Electricity billYou?
- Birthday gift for her mom—
Kept in one person's head. Rarely said out loud.
Split the math.
Not the mental load.
Joint account or separate accounts?
Maybe that's the wrong question.
EVERYTHING SEPARATE
Parallel lives, quiet tallies, things that slip.
A shared layer for the parts of life you actually share.
EVERYTHING TOGETHER
One pot, and every purchase up for discussion.
Your money
doesn't become ours.
The decision does.
Keep your financial life private. Bring only what matters into a shared decision.
YOURS · PRIVATE
- Your balance
- Your purchases
- Notes you haven't shared
SHARED
- Rent is due before payday
- Trip dates in December
- Dinner with friends
THEIRS · PRIVATE
- Their balance
- Their purchases
- Notes they haven't shared
Only what you choose to bring becomes part of the conversation.
A small ritual.
Four simple moves.
- 01
Private
Start with your own information.
- 02
Bring
Bring one item into the shared space.
- 03
Decide
Agree on what feels fair.
- 04
Clear
Close the decision and move on.
Private → Bring → Decide → Clear
One item at a time.
One decision at a time.
Instead of opening your entire financial life, bring one decision into focus.
RENT
Rent is due before Jamie's payday this month.
- WHO'S HANDLING IT?
- JamieAlexTogether
- BY WHEN?
- October 3
WHAT'S THE CALL?
Alex covers rent. Jamie transfers their share on payday.
Smaller things work the same way.
SHARED DECISION
Dinner with friends
What feels fair for this one?
“Groceries were on me yesterday, so this one feels fair.”
Share the decision.
Not the receipts.
WEEKEND AWAY
Should we book it before prices go up?
- THE DECISION
- Book the hotel now. Wait until payday for the flights.
- NEXT STEP
- Jamie checks flights on Friday.
- WHY WE DECIDED THIS
- Lock in the hotel without stretching this week.
- Status
- ✓ Clear
You don't need a shared ledger to make a shared decision.
Here's exactly what
your partner sees.
Before anything is shared, Money Date shows you what will be visible. Nothing moves from private to shared without you choosing it.
Bring this to us?
ALEX WILL SEE
- ✓ The note you chose to bring
- ✓ The amount you decided to share
- ✓ The decision question
ALEX WON'T SEE
- — Your private notes
- — Your other personal items
- — Anything you haven't shared
Works for couples who are…
- Married
- Dating
- Living together
- Separate accounts
- Unequal incomes
- No joint bank account
No marriage, joint account, equal incomes or total transparency required.
15 min
a week, as a ritual — not a promise.
- Review what matters.
- Make the decision together.
- Decide, assign, revisit — or drop it.
- Get back to your life.
That's shared clarity.
Questions couples ask first.
Will my partner see everything?
No. Everything starts private. Your partner only sees the items you choose to bring into a shared decision — and you see exactly what they'll see before you share.
Do we need to be married or have a joint account?
No. Money Date works for couples who are dating, living together or married, with or without any shared account.
Our incomes are different. Does it assume 50/50?
No. We don't tell couples what's fair. For each decision you can split equally, by income, have one person cover it, set a custom split — or just assign who's responsible.
Do we have to connect a bank?
No. The core Money Date works without any bank connection.
We already use a spreadsheet.
Keep it. A spreadsheet records numbers. Money Date is where you decide what to do about them — and remember what you agreed.
My partner won't sign up for another app.
They don't need to at first. They get one simple question — “Here's what Alex brought up. What feels fair to you?” — and can answer before creating anything.
Is this financial or relationship therapy?
No. It's a practical coordination tool for everyday shared decisions.
One subscription.
Both of you.
FREE
$0
Your first shared decision, start to finish.
- One guided shared decision
- Partner invite
- No bank connection needed
MONEY DATE PLUS
$59 / year
Best value · One plan covers both partners · cancel anytime
- Unlimited shared decisions
- Recurring Money Dates and reminders
- Custom split rules
- Decision history and exports
You don't have to solve
your whole financial life today.
Start with one shared decision.
Built for clarity between two people, not financial surveillance.